the nice list

You might
be a Nice
Person if...
  1. You are always longing for something (or someone).
  2. You feel worried or fretful so often it seems normal.
  3. You can't keep romance sizzling, and often can't even get romance started
  4. You often don't know what you want.
  5. You're always thinking about what you wish you had said.
  6. You constantly second guess yourself.
  7. You apologize frequently, or for things you are not responsible for.
  8. You take what you're given instead of asking for what you want.
  9. You get preoccupied with what other people think of you.
  10. You are frequently surprised that other people don't reciprocate your good will.
  11. You do favors for people with the secret hope they will reciprocate.
  12. You are more prone to feel sorry for yourself than to take action and fix a problem.
  13. You tend to give more than you get (you might be resentful about this).
  14. It seems like other people get the attention or the acknowledgment.
  15. It seems like other people get the dates (maybe your friends tell you you're a great catch).
  16. Your emotional state mirrors your partner's (if your partner isn't happy, you aren't happy).
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